Tinder made Lauren Grauer feel like a delinquent dater.
While watching videos on YouTube last month, the New York talent marketer was served an ad for “Double Date,” a new feature the dating app launched that lets users pair their profiles with friends to swipe on other paired matches.
Grauer was shocked by the news. Four years ago, she’d essentially thought to do the same thing by making a double date profile of her and a friend. The idea got her kicked off the app.
“The reason I got banned from Tinder is what they’re advertising now,” Grauer says in a TikTok video. “I don’t want to be back. You don’t need to un-ban me—it’s fine. But you made me feel like a criminal.” (The company’s community guidelines prohibit account sharing.)
Double Date is one of more than a dozen features Tinder has announced as part of its ongoing rebrand under its latest chief executive, Spencer Rascoff, who wants to create a fresh identity for the world’s most popular dating app around social, low-pressure connections.
Unlike every other dating app battling for engagement, Tinder has uniquely struggled to innovate in a field where it was once considered the standard. Though Grindr launched in 2009 as the first geo-location hookup app—tailored specifically around gay desire—it was Tinder, which arrived in 2012, that completely overhauled online dating. Swiping for love was a big hit among love-sick singles, and burgeoning apps, including Bumble, Feeld, and Raya, flooded the market in the following years.
By 2016, Tinder had an estimated 50 million users and was the biggest dating app in the US, with 25 percent of the market share. As time passed, though, daters began to treat digital courtship like a game—swiping until they reached the final level. Vanity Fair once called it the “Dawn of the Dating Apocalypse.” In the final quarter of 2025, paying Tinder members dropped 8 percent, to 8.8 million.
This month, during a media event at the El Rey Theater in Los Angeles, Rascoff officially reintroduced Tinder to the public. Where swipes were once a measure of success, the company’s benchmarks have changed when it comes to user satisfaction. “Just getting matches is not the goal,” Rascoff said of shifting priorities. “People are craving connection. Humans need humans.”
Like every other dating app on the market, Tinder is betting on AI to not only innovate but reestablish trust with users. But can the app revitalize the dating landscape many say it ruined?
In addition to a profile redesign, two of its new marquee products include astrology mode, which pairs people based on their zodiac compatibility, and Chemistry, an AI-powered tool that analyzes a user’s camera roll to learn more about their interests and personality. The company, which was subject to an alleged data breach in January, says it does not store the data analyzed from photos.
Tinder is also making AI upgrades to its Are You Sure? feature, which alerts users of potentially “harmful language” they’ve typed before they hit Send, and “Does This Bother You,” which detects potentially profane messages being sent to users, automatically blurring the text so the receiver can’t see it without tapping through. (Auto-blur is just for text messages; Tinder, like all Match-owned apps, does not allow private image exchange.)
But “harmful language” is a somewhat subjective concept. And the apps can often be particularly brutal for marginalized people.
Kobe Mehki, a 23-year-old singer-songwriter in Los Angeles, who is trans and rejoined Tinder in January, says she is constantly having to defend her identity. “So many men were saying, Hey, you’re so pretty. But would ask, Are you trans? Are you trans? It was so jarring. I’ve never had it happen so much,” she says. “Men are only hypersexualizing me or asking questions about me as if I’m not even a real person. They discredit anything else—my heart, my personality, my ambitions—and it makes me want to just retreat and not even approach dating.”
